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MAIL ORDER BRIDE SUCCESS STORY
How I met and married my Ukraine Dream Wife.
(A Mail Order Bride)
I’m a 53 year old American Man married to a 30 year old model from the Ukraine. She is absolutely gorgeous and I’m not. Throughout my story I will provide links to the website where I met my wife. If you would like I’ll be glad to provide advise or help you also meet the woman of your dreams. No hype no gimmicks I want you to be as happy as I am. You see, my wife, Anna, is college educated, hard working, bright and a 12 on a scale of 1-10 in beauty. I have, previously, been married and divorced three times. Until I was married the fourth time I considered my three prior divorces a badge of disgrace. I was ashamed to admit that I was a failure at marriage. I had resigned myself to being alone and it depressed me. But I now realize I was looking for love in all the wrong places. The USA.
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Here is my story.
Just before I got married to my third wife I was corresponding to a mail order bride from Brazil and decided to dump her for the American girl that sat across from me at work. After all what could I have in common with a mail order bride as opposed to someone raised in the same country. I emailed my foreign fiancée and broke off the engagement. Soon as I did I felt terrible. I should have heeded my feelings. Four years later and thousands of arguments I came home and my American wife was in bed with another man. My marriage had been a living nightmare. I would have paid anything to get out of that marriage and I did. It cost me over $200,000 USD to end it despite having no children together. But I gratefully paid that sum to get free from the albatross.
My sisters all argued that I should give up on marriage. That after one American woman that cheated on me and another that left me (soon as my income went down) it was obvious that marriage and I were far apart on values and ideals. I even had a psychologist suggest that it was my fault because I picked a gold digger and a whore as wives. At the time I was so down trodden I began to think that maybe he was right.
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However, two years later lonely and wanting female companionship I found myself surfing the net. First, just looking at Yahoo Personal but not willing to contact an American woman after my last two experiences. Then I found this site http://LovedByHer.com which had foreign brides complete with pictures and profiles. Originally, it was just a fantasy as I clicked on profiles and selected beautiful ladies to add to my favorites. I never wrote anyone and another year slipped by.
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Finally, I had wasted three years and was still a single guy avoiding American women but afraid to take that step towards a foreign mail order bride. I sent an email. Originally, I emailed a South American lady and got back a very nice return email stating she was corresponding with several men and believed she had found her life partner and would not be corresponding further. Then I emailed a lady from Cartenga Columbia and got back an email stating she had read my letter and reviewed my profile and wasn’t interested. I didn’t understand.
How was it that a supposedly rich American was being turned down by a mail order bride? Weren’t they suppose to be lined up just craving an American Man so they could get in the USA? I must be much uglier than I thought? It would be several months latter before I would understand that most mail order brides don’t care if you have a million dollars or you are as poor as a church mouse. They aren’t after your money but after love and marriage. Most foreign mail order brides (that I have dealt with) are raised in a culture where marriage and family are still an important part of their society. Their satisfaction in life does not come from a big paycheck or your college education or closing a huge marketing deal or any other materialistic value. Rather these ladies get their happiness from coming home to a loving husband and a happy family. Shocked? So was I. I had this stereotype idea of foreign mail order brides being gold diggers wanting to take my money (both nickels) or women just wanting to come to the USA to get citizenship. I have not found that to be true and was never ask for a dime from any of the dozen women I emailed, called or visited.
At first I sorted through all the beautiful women on http://LovedByHer.com and identified probably 35 mail order brides from Philippines, Columbia, Russia and the Ukraine. I picked these women because of their reputations of standing by their men no matter what happens.
So I kept emailing mail order brides. Not a lot but maybe 4-5 from each country. My total outlay was around $50.00.

In the end I decided that mail order brides from the Ukraine and Russia seemed to be what I was looking for. They were college educated, beautiful, had family values and the age difference did not bother them. I begin to read everything that I could on the mail order brides of the Ukraine and Russia. I learned that there is 1.5 million more marriage age women in the Ukraine than there are marriage age men. That in their society there is a huge emphasis on a woman marrying and being a good wife but that because of the shortage of men and the poor economy that many woman found themselves working their entire lives never having an opportunity to get married. I learned that the average mortality rate for Ukraine man is 58 while women lived well into their 70’s. It was my dream country.
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I then started exclusively emailing mail order brides in both the Ukraine and Russia eventually meeting and marrying my beautiful wife. We have two children and life is wonderful. She is just as happy to go for a family walk than a dinner date, she would rather listen to music at home than a fancy rock concert and most of all she loves me and loves our children. She is bright, educated, loving, caring and 30 years old. She quickly became a front runner when we were corresponding. She started every letter thanking me for writing her. Shared some of her life and would travel two hours on bus to get my letters from the local http://LovedbyHer.com agency. Sometimes when I wake up in the morning I have to pinch myself to make sure I’m awake. Her son and my son have become best friends. Her mother who is still in the Ukraine (and doesn’t want to leave) thinks I’m the most wonderful man in the world.
Anna wakes me every morning with a kiss. We date regularly and she holds my hand, hugs and kisses me like we are teenagers. We have never had an argument in the five years we have been married (already outlasting two of my prior three marriages and statistically mail order brides have a lower divorce rate than American marriages) and she is a wonderful homemaker, mother and lover.
So that is my story. Hope it helps you in your own quest for a mail order bride.
Bill.
p.s. If you are a man seeking a mail order bride remember she is taking a big chance to come to the USA leaving everything and everybody she knows to be with you. Treat her with the love and respect that such an act deserves. Have her call her family every week, take her out somewhere every day and never, never stop dating her. If you do these things you too can be as happy as I am. Bill.
FROM THE WEB:

How successful are 'mail order bride' marriages?
The answer in part is going to depend upon what one considers a successful marriage.
Before I address the idea of a successful mail order bride marriage let me say that I'm happily married to a "mail order bride" from http://LovedByHer.com Their site helped me to have a successful marriage by assisting me and my, then girlfriend/fiancée, to overcome culture differences. Most mail order brides are raised in cultures where they are family oriented and want desperately to have a successful marriage. To them successful marriage is not whether they are driving a new car or living in a big home but whether they have a happy family.
But you will have culture differences on little things. Mail Order Brides from the Ukraine and Russia have superstitions such as “whistling in your house” (means the home will have no money) or singing/humming in public is “bad luck/manners”. Because of this it is important that a man have the assistance of someone versed in both cultures to successfully bridge the gap. http://LovedByHer.com provided post engagement assistance (no cost) to help bridge these differences for me and help me to have the successful marriage that I do today. Mail Order Brides from the Ukraine and Russia tend to talk less and be more responsive to body cues and physical cues such as a man folding his arms or looking away when speaking with them. Because of this you must be conscious of your actions so as to not offend these women.
Unlike most American women that I have been exposed to mail order brides are willing to work hard (inside and outside the home) and are college educated, articulate and self driven. Remember these women took a big risk to leave their countries for the sake of their children, families and future lives. Perhaps, as a result of their commitment mail order brides have a divorce rate of 20% while American women have a divorce rate of 52%.
For me being married to a woman that is intelligent, college educated, hard working, beautiful and loves me and our children was well worth the inconvenience of “meshing” our two cultures. We now whistle in the house, every night, together.J
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